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One suggestion on how to increase dopamine, which helps us to achieve more, is to journal once a day about a positive experience. Journaling about positive experience allows your brain to relive it.
But what if you've never written in a journal before?
For many of us, starting something can be overwhelming. The options seem limitless. At first, journaling might seem forced and awkward, but after time and regular practice, it will become easier. I’d like to share an idea that can help you get started journaling.
There is a method of self-reflection I was introduced to by a LinkedIn colleague and have found it to be invaluable. It’s most helpful on days when I don’t know what to write. It’s call Naikan.
Here is how the Morita School explains Naikan:
Naikan
is a Japanese word which means "inside looking" or
"introspection." It is a structured method of self-reflection that
helps us to look at ourselves, our relationships, and our actions from a new
perspective. Reflecting on our lives through the lens of Naikan often
transforms long held but inaccurate beliefs about our lives. In turn this perspective will often give rise to
feelings of gratitude, indebtedness, and responsibility.
This description appears in the book “Naikan:
Gratitude, Grace, and the Japanese Art of Self-Reflection” by Greg Krech:
Naikan
was developed in Japan in the 1940's by Ishin Yashimoto, a devout Buddhist of
the Pure Land (Jodo Shinshu) sect. His strong religious spirit led him to
practice mishirabe, an arduous and difficult method of meditation and
self-reflection. Wishing to make such introspection available to others, he
developed Naikan as a method that could be more widely practiced.
Naikan
broadens our view of reality. It's as if, standing on top of a mountain, we
shift from a zoom lens to a wide-angle lens. Now we can appreciate the broader
panorama - our former perspective still included, but accompanied by much that
had been hidden. And that which was hidden makes the view extraordinary.
Naikan's
profound impact resulted in its use in other areas of Japanese society. Today,
there are about 40 Naikan centers in Japan, and Naikan is used in mental health
counseling, addiction treatment, rehabilitation of prisoners, schools, and business.
Naikan
is simple to learn. It is based on three basic questions:
1.
What have I received?
2.
What have I given?
3.
What troubles and difficulties have I caused?
Used
creatively these questions can shed light on the hidden aspects of our
relationship to all things; on the fundamental nature of how we view our life.
Ultimately Naikan is a dedication to the truth. Not the self-centered
interpretation of what we believe, but a search for the actual events of our
lives as they might be experienced by those around us. This truth, though
sometimes daunting, is also liberating.
A more thorough explanation about Naikan and retreats can be found at: http://www.naikan.ws/english/naikan-whatis.html
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At first glance the third question might seem to go against the science that Achor speaks about in his lectures and books. However, in spirit, it does not. In the first and second questions, look for the positive first. The third is about a reality check – accountability. Follow up the third question with: “I will going forward.” This helps propel you into a positive direction.
Whether or not you use this method is not important. Getting into the habit of journaling is the desired goal. This method that I introduce is just one way of getting started. Good luck and let me know how it goes!